Only Child vs. Siblings: Who Had It Worse?!

[00:00:00] Speaker A: The Hawaiian Comedian presents. I've been doing comedy for over 20, 23 years. And I've been on the road. I've been in different cities. I've been different. Things like that. [00:00:07] Speaker B: We're here to talk about everything, man. The topics you talk about with your friends, your family. Questions you got for us. Twitty in the City. [00:00:14] Speaker A: Aloha. [00:00:19] Speaker B: You probably know the drill by now. If not, what's up? My name's Twitty. This is Twitty in the City. This guy over here, this is hc, thc, technically the Hawaiian comedian. Let's do business protocol. Hit the like. Hit the subscribe button. I only say it's business because I feel bad saying it. But we appreciate the, like, we appreciate the subscriber and we appreciate the comments. Are you still talking THC to that one guy from our. Was it the this or that food one that you were. No, it was the Tools. The Tools one. Are you still talking with that guy? [00:00:50] Speaker A: Every now. Every now and then again, he. No, he pops in on the other videos. Every now and then he just comes in and boom. And just pops up. [00:00:56] Speaker B: Is he popping in to comment on that video or is he popping in to re. Bring up? [00:01:02] Speaker A: And that's what I like is that he's not going back to the first one. He's actually sticking with the one that he's commenting on. [00:01:07] Speaker B: But because I would have respected that, it's like he had a second thought. It was like, instead of putting it on that old one, I'll just let him know. I did watch the new episode, but I had a thought about this and. [00:01:15] Speaker A: That'S what I thought he was going to do, too. I thought he was going to be on the other. Oh, I like this one. But remember the last one? [00:01:20] Speaker B: No, he's staying forward with it. Yeah, I like that. Okay, cool, cool, cool. So, yeah, like, subscribe. You got questions. We're going to get to the people's questions again because I made a promise last episode. We're going to go back to back. So other than that, how you been, thc? [00:01:34] Speaker A: I mean, I feel like I'm a little underdressed. You came in here looking all spiffy. [00:01:39] Speaker B: It's not spiff. Okay. It is spiffy. [00:01:41] Speaker A: It's nice. You look very nice. I'm over here sitting with a highlighter cap on my head. [00:01:46] Speaker B: But that's the thing. I didn't. I was going to text you, but then I thought, that's not what this show is about. [00:01:53] Speaker A: So here's 10 years. [00:01:54] Speaker B: Yeah. And here's what happened. I was in my closet. I was looking for something, and I realized I have a bunch of nice clothes, and I don't wear them. And so, because I'm in this business of entertainment, and I was like, I got to go to work today. I wanted everybody, which they did, look at me and think, meeting, job interview. And it was very nice to just tell them I got to wear clothes to work. [00:02:17] Speaker A: Yeah. But it's also got to be kind of cold. It's still cold. [00:02:20] Speaker B: So, see, here's the trick. [00:02:21] Speaker A: It's still cold right now. [00:02:22] Speaker B: It is. But here's the trick. So this is why you get a blazer. But underneath this shirt and these pants, it's my favorite place. Costco almost said leggings, but Costco long johns, you go a size smaller, so they fit like tights. [00:02:39] Speaker A: Yeah, but don't they ride up? [00:02:40] Speaker B: Uh, so you put. So you put leggings, and then you can see I got socks, but the sock is over the legging, so it keeps it there. And then the same thing with the shirt. The shirt has tried to pop out a little bit on the sleeve, but that'll get fixed when I put it through the wash and I actually dry it, so it'll get a little tighter. So the sleeves of the long john will be higher. [00:03:01] Speaker A: But you still. Minimizing the layers and layers is how you survive up here. [00:03:06] Speaker B: Yeah, but again, I'm just. If I was having to do this show outside. Yes. I would not wear this. [00:03:12] Speaker A: No. [00:03:13] Speaker B: See, I got to get from the car to a building. [00:03:15] Speaker A: What's going to happen is, is when I come in dressed like that, if it's still this cold, it's going to be underneath all my car hard gear. I'm going come in looking like a farmer. [00:03:23] Speaker B: So you're going to. You know, you're going to pull that James Bond walk up in here like you the janitor. [00:03:29] Speaker A: Like, I'm about to go do a. [00:03:30] Speaker B: Little something something, and then, yeah, just take pants, take tuxedo. Sean, keep in mind, when that day comes, I don't know how far these cameras can zoom out. We'll have to get a full. Like, you can't be sitting down doing that. You got to be standing up to take off the ensemble. [00:03:42] Speaker A: Oh, everything's got to come off. Yeah, exactly. But I'm just saying, like, it's just too cold right now. [00:03:46] Speaker B: Like, I have. [00:03:47] Speaker A: I have some nice clothes, too, to put on. [00:03:48] Speaker B: But I'm seeing you dressed up before. [00:03:50] Speaker A: I'm just like, it's too Cold right now to come out like that. [00:03:52] Speaker B: It is cold. I will not be doing this a lot, but I. I need to start bringing in my nice attire. [00:03:58] Speaker A: He said you don't do this a lot. Watch tomorrow, he gonna be all another three piece suit. I mean, next one gonna have a vest. Gonna have a little. Little bow tie with it. It's gonna. [00:04:06] Speaker B: I ain't gonna do the bow tie. I can't. I don't like being restricted at the neck. You can't. Let me see. There you go. You can tell. Yeah, I. [00:04:12] Speaker A: No tie, nothing. [00:04:13] Speaker B: Not when I'm just dressing for just the dress. I don't. I'm not that. Like, I don't wear my nice cloth, but I don't. I don't miss the tie that much. [00:04:23] Speaker A: I'm just saying now. Game is on now. [00:04:24] Speaker B: I mean, who knows? I'll bring a tie. It's just if you're gonna ask me to wear. This is what I would wear every day if I didn't have to do a tie. If I gotta do a tie, yes, I can do it. I know how to tie a tie, but I just don't. I want to be. I wanna still be like, talkative to people. It's like, he dressed nice, but he'll go get a beer. I don't know what it is about a tie where it'd be like, I don't know if he'll go get a beer. You don't button up the top. It's like he'll go do a. He'll get a beer. [00:04:51] Speaker A: Or a polo. Yeah, nice polo shirt. [00:04:53] Speaker B: Exactly. [00:04:54] Speaker A: Let's go get a beer. Shirt. [00:04:55] Speaker B: That Napoleon. [00:04:56] Speaker A: The polo is the shirt. [00:04:58] Speaker B: What if I just didn't. What if I didn't have the jacket, but I just had this shirt and I got rid of one more button. [00:05:03] Speaker A: I was thinking you should be holding a menu in the other hand and be asking me where you. Where I would like to seat if I want a booth or a table. [00:05:12] Speaker B: Oh, that's fair. All right. That conversation went longer than I anticipated, which is part of this show. [00:05:17] Speaker A: That's what we do, though. [00:05:18] Speaker B: This is what we do. So back to the people. I got a list that I had to pull up because Stephanie, which, by the way, when you're commenting, please, please, please. It's one thing I ask. Tell us where your list is, where you're from. Freaking Stephanie didn't put it in there. I gotta start making it like a required. You know, like those. When you're filling out something online and you can't advance and because it's required. [00:05:42] Speaker A: To fill that in. [00:05:42] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, I don't want to do that, but I kind of want to. I just want to, like, you ain't got to put, I don't need your address. I just want to know we can even be nice. What state? I don't even know the city. Just what state, Stephanie. But either way, Stephanie commented. Hello, Twitty. Hello, THC didn't watch the first couple of episodes just jumping in the middle, but I just had to know Twitty gives me younger sibling vibes on the show with just his demeanor and how he acts. Is this true or false? And also, thc, what was your childhood sibling or only child relationship growing up? Thanks, guys. Hope you answer it, Stephanie. [00:06:26] Speaker A: That was a very broad question. Like, she kind of took it all and just said, you know, what was your. Just what was your upbringing like? [00:06:34] Speaker B: I think. I think it was more so not about. [00:06:37] Speaker A: But she was like, only child, too. Did you hear that? The last part of it? [00:06:41] Speaker B: Yeah. I think it's not about. I think she just wants to know if we have siblings or not. And surprisingly, Stephanie, you're wrong. I am an only child, which. Which is what got to me of do I have single child tendencies or vibe, which I was going to ask you, to be honest. You know me now. You know that I don't have siblings, but when you first met me and I got a list of only child versus sibling tendencies that kids have growing up, if I portrayed any of these. So to answer the question, Stephanie, I am an only child, but I think where I get most of my sibling ish is I was the second oldest of, like, 15 cousins. Like, we were all in the same age range. So we were at my grandma's house, which, by the way, first two episodes will explain all that. But in the short version, Stephanie, I grew up with a lot of cousins. I just was home to go to bed and wake up by myself. But for the majority of the day, I was with my cousins. And so I had to learn how to share and be nice because grandma wasn't gonna have nobody acting up in her house. So that's the answer to that question. And she didn't say if she thought you were a single child or not. But THC is not an only child. [00:07:59] Speaker A: Were you the only boy in my family? Yes. Yeah. In my immediate family, yes. [00:08:05] Speaker B: So you were similar. So you had siblings, but your siblings went beyond your immediate family because you also had cousins. Oh, and friends that basically were considered cousins. [00:08:14] Speaker A: As a Hawaiian, I Haven't even met my whole family yet. I'm 50. I bought 50 years old, and I haven't met every single person in my. Every time I go back home, I meet a new cousin, a new auntie, and a new uncle. Every single time. Like, my. My family is continually growing. But, yeah, I had. I'm a middle child, so I have an older sister. And I have a younger sister. [00:08:34] Speaker B: Gotcha. So you had three. So there was three of you total, and you were the middle. I would have guessed that you would have been the youngest, even though I. I know your story, but if I. When I had first met you, I would have thought you were the younger sibling. The way you talked about your sisters. [00:08:53] Speaker A: What do you mean? What do you mean? What do you mean? Wait, wait, what? [00:08:55] Speaker B: Did I say that right? No, sorry, I thought you would have been the oldest. My bad, backwards. [00:08:59] Speaker A: The oldest? [00:09:00] Speaker B: Yes. The way you talked about your sisters and, like, looking after them and they were always, like, on your case. No, I said that wrong. Yes. I thought you were the younger youngest. [00:09:09] Speaker A: Like, they were looking out for me. [00:09:11] Speaker B: Yes. Because you always talked about how your sister this. You had to go ask your sister that. And maybe you was just talking about the one sister who's older. See, I. When I heard you say sister, I was referencing both, so I thought. [00:09:23] Speaker A: Oh, but I was also, like. Oh, yeah, I was protective of both of them. [00:09:29] Speaker B: Right. Which is fair. [00:09:30] Speaker A: I argued with my. Well, man. No, you know what? I probably argued with both of them equally. I. [00:09:35] Speaker B: But it was. [00:09:37] Speaker A: But it was like that. Like, that's. Yeah. Middle child. [00:09:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:09:43] Speaker A: But I. Youngest to my. To my oldest one. I always acted. I think that's why, like, sometimes, like, I gotta be the youngest on one side and then I gotta be the oldest on the other side, so. [00:09:52] Speaker B: Yes. Yeah. Middle child. [00:09:54] Speaker A: Middle child. [00:09:54] Speaker B: Yeah. Got the best of both worlds, so. [00:09:57] Speaker A: It was the best. [00:09:57] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, you made it. You're good. [00:10:01] Speaker A: Yeah, that's true. [00:10:02] Speaker B: Yeah. I'd say it worked out for you. You was where you supposed to be born, but I. I could tell that I was an only child. [00:10:08] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:10:09] Speaker B: What's. What's the one. What. What's the one thing that gave it away for you? [00:10:15] Speaker A: Food. [00:10:18] Speaker B: Yeah. So that's. Yeah. Territorial. Which is one of the things that is. [00:10:22] Speaker A: Yeah, you're territorial with food. [00:10:24] Speaker B: Of all the things, though, you are. [00:10:26] Speaker A: See, that's what I'm saying. Like, when you talk about how you had to be, like, with. With the cousins and you were old. You were what, second oldest of all the Cousins. So you second, always. You got to look out for them, and that's. And that's great. But you only got to look out for them outside of your home. [00:10:39] Speaker B: Yeah, that's true. [00:10:40] Speaker A: When you go home, there's nobody else you competing with for a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. There's nobody else you competing with for cereal. There's nobody else you competing with for milk. There's nobody else in it. Like, I'm, as a middle child, like, I not only got to eat because my oldest is looking out for me, but I also have to feed because. Because my youngest is My youngest. My youngest daughter. Excuse me, my youngest sister. I gotta make sure that she gets. So I gotta balance the. I gotta balance both. So I couldn't go and just grab something to eat and just eat without going, okay, who else need to eat? [00:11:12] Speaker B: You had to consider, like, well, yesterday, my older sister, she gave me her. So I should save some. And also, if I get some, my younger sister's gonna want some. So I need to get two bowls instead of one. But really, I need to get just one big bowl. Cause ma don't want us to have a bunch of dishes. I. I get it. I can see it. I see it. Yeah. I can't be mad at that. Yeah. Food. I feel like even if I. If I probably had siblings, by the. [00:11:37] Speaker A: First time I knew you was only. Was when you gave me a sample. When you gave me a sample of a dish, that's when I. I. Inside my head, I went, he's the only child. [00:11:47] Speaker B: Instead of just giving you, like, half. [00:11:49] Speaker A: Well, instead of giving me, like, a portion of something, you took a fork and you put it on the end of the fork, and you handed me the fork, and you say, here you go. So I'm supposed to get the taste of it. Sure. [00:11:59] Speaker B: Yeah. But then. [00:12:01] Speaker A: Exactly. But other than that, I get to watch you enjoy it now. [00:12:05] Speaker B: No, I didn't. I didn't eat it in front of your face. [00:12:08] Speaker A: You know, you went around the corner. But if I would have walked around the corner, I'd have been in front of your face. [00:12:12] Speaker B: Yes, but I didn't. Just deliberately. [00:12:14] Speaker A: But see, that's. That's the difference. Like, I've noticed that people who have older, old or younger siblings. And I'm seeing like. And older siblings, when they do it, if they're in the house, we always go, does everybody have the same. Is everybody equal? Is everybody in here? Like, if I come in and I got 10 cookies and you say, sean, can I have a cookie? When I Hear that? I hear, yeah, dude, take half my bag. That's what I hear. Like, if you walk up and you said, hey, let me get like three of those. Of those six cookies. One, two, three. That seems fair to me. Yeah, I don't think that would seem fair to you, like, if you, if you was to just have to give over half. [00:12:54] Speaker B: Yeah, naturally. Yes. Because it also, for me, being an on shop, which is probably going to share that. Yeah, it depends on who it is. Like, for being. Yeah, see, for you, it didn't matter. For me, being at work, it was like, well, I don't know if he's going to like this. And the last thing I want to do is give somebody I don't know fully yet half of this food. And they just like it and they don't like it. [00:13:13] Speaker A: Yeah, I got you. [00:13:14] Speaker B: But yeah, if I, like, now that I know you, it's like, yeah, I give you half everything. When my wife makes muffins, I bring six. You automatically get three. [00:13:21] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm getting. But that's what I'm saying. But see, like, somebody that is not. [00:13:24] Speaker B: An only child, you, no matter what, who, whether you knew the person or not, if you're sharing, you're automatically going 50. [00:13:31] Speaker A: Because I'm always going to think, did I give enough? [00:13:33] Speaker B: Right. [00:13:34] Speaker A: Because that's, that's just how it was for me growing up. [00:13:36] Speaker B: And see, for me, it's a. It's to put out the filler of. I would, I don't mind sharing, but it's like, I'm not gonna force you to feel like you gotta eat this and you don't like it. Like, also, like, tell me if you don't like it and I won't give you. No, I won't give you more. [00:13:49] Speaker A: My cousin, my cousin Christine on, On the, on the Peabody side of the family. Not the Hawaiian side of the family, but my Peabody side. She's an only child as well, and sometimes she didn't get it. When we used to. When. Yeah, well, me and my sisters were sitting there going, yeah, we don't, we don't get seconds. Like, we don't have enough for seconds. Yeah, she never got that. [00:14:09] Speaker B: Did I get she. [00:14:10] Speaker A: Because, like, seconds. The only reason why she wouldn't get seconds is because she already finished it. [00:14:16] Speaker B: True. [00:14:17] Speaker A: See, and for us, we was like, we only got seconds. It was like, wait a minute. Why you get seconds and the rest of us didn't get seconds? [00:14:23] Speaker B: Yeah, if not. [00:14:24] Speaker A: If not, that's one trait. You know, the food. I see the food That I see that trait is. [00:14:29] Speaker B: It's, that is deceivingly. I would have never thought that it is telling. It can be telling. [00:14:33] Speaker A: 100. [00:14:34] Speaker B: Yeah. I think I only vouch for myself. I know I'm a good person at heart. I know for me it's, I don't. [00:14:41] Speaker A: Want to nothing about. It's nothing about. It's not, it's not about a good person, bad person thing. It's about a reflex. About a reflex mode that you get into because that's just how it's been for you. [00:14:50] Speaker B: Right. [00:14:50] Speaker A: Every single day. [00:14:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:14:52] Speaker A: So. And I totally get it. It's not a good. It's not I'm bad, I'm good thing. It's just that that's the way it happens. It's no fault of your own. No, it's just this is what, this is the situation you were in. [00:15:02] Speaker B: I've met some single people, some little only child. Oh. Like I, I look at them be like, how were you grew up way different than me. Like I said, I was fortunate that. Yeah. I had to share. Like, I, it was no if, ands or buts. [00:15:16] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:15:17] Speaker B: Like I had to share. And yeah, if you had a guest over, you don't get to eat first. [00:15:22] Speaker A: And like, and like my, my, my cousin who, who is, who is an only child. Like, she's one of my sweetest cousins. Like I, I, I, I, that's, I mean all my cousins might get mad at me, but my cousin Christina, she, Christina just my, she's one of my favorite cousins. [00:15:35] Speaker B: Yeah. My whole life growing up, my favorite every, every cousin. Can't believe they are all the favorite. [00:15:41] Speaker A: Nah, there's a couple of them that want to believe that. [00:15:43] Speaker B: Yeah. That's different. Yeah, you can. But you can believe what you think. Yeah. Then to be factual. [00:15:48] Speaker A: Which is crazy because her dad, my uncle Ray, is my favorite uncle. Like, that's, that's my, that's my favorite his uncle. Out of all my uncles, all my uncles got mad right now. [00:15:57] Speaker B: She got, she got something from your uncle that translates into her that she was like, I at least got. I might be a single child, but I got a good trait. [00:16:04] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. And she was always good. She was, she wasn't one of them. Spoiled only child. [00:16:08] Speaker B: Yeah. There's a lot of us out there that are good. Yeah, there is. I will say there are some. [00:16:13] Speaker A: I've been fortunate that the ones that have been good are in my family. [00:16:17] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:16:17] Speaker A: And the ones that aren't, I'm like. [00:16:19] Speaker B: Well, I ain't related to Them, Yeah, the only child's out there. They can be bad. And yeah, I can speak on that because I was an only child. So the list that I found, I'm gonna do only child first and then I found some for. Wow, what's that word called? Siblings. That word was almost hard for a second. So the distinguishing of an only child, Loneliness. Only children may feel lonely because they don't have a sibling to play with, which causes them to not want to branch out and talk to other people. I think sports, that checked that out of me. Like, I had, I had to communicate. And again, having cousins, I couldn't just sit in the corner with my one toy and like play by myself. [00:17:00] Speaker A: Well, see on and on a positive note is that some of them because like my, my cousin Christine, she was very quiet. She was very quiet. But that also made her an excellent listener. Yes, excellent listener. [00:17:13] Speaker B: I also feel like 100%. I also feel like playing by yourself allowed. It taught you to learn to entertain yourself where, like, you didn't need to be around people. Where. I remember one time in college, I had a roommate who grew up with siblings and was just going nuts. Cause it snowed, football was over, and we were in the dorms by ourselves. And he was just going crazy, like, man, I gotta do something. And me, I'm like, I'm just gonna relax, do, do some stuff. I've been wanting to do like a crossword puzzle or finish this freaking book report or play Madden. And so I think as an only child, the loneliness, yes, that could be scary. But you, you learn how to self entertain yourself or be fine with you. Perfect example. When my wife goes out of town, people always like, oh, did you go crazy? It's like, no. And they're like, oh, did you just do everything you wanted to do? No, I, I was fine. [00:18:09] Speaker A: Did you do everything you wanted? It's like, I do everything I want to do. Is that what you said? [00:18:12] Speaker B: Yeah, it's like I was fine. Like, did I miss her? [00:18:15] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:18:15] Speaker B: But I woke up, I had breakfast, I did chores. And then, yeah, I just hung around the house. And then I was like, ah, I want to go get a beer for mother Earth. I went and got a beer by myself. I didn't have to call somebody up because I need somebody to get a beer with me. I went and got a beer by myself. Doesn't mean I'm sad or depressed or lonely. I just thirsty. I was, yeah, I was thirsty for a beer, right? And so I think that's how I think of that. Too, is like, I can. I can be fine by myself. I don't want to always be by myself, but if I have to be, I can. [00:18:47] Speaker A: And I think it's a longing sometimes for people like me because we have siblings, is that we long to be alone. You know what I'm saying? We love. We love to be like. If there's. Sometimes we're just like, damn, there's just too many people here. [00:18:59] Speaker B: Right? I want to be alone. [00:19:01] Speaker A: When I see my cousin off by herself, I'm like, damn, that must be nice. That must be nice. Like, you got nobody in your head. Nobody asking you questions. You just alone. [00:19:09] Speaker B: Right. [00:19:10] Speaker A: In your own world. I like that. [00:19:11] Speaker B: Bro said, that must be. [00:19:14] Speaker A: That must be nice. [00:19:16] Speaker B: Get to have. Good. To have the back seat by yourself on the car ride home. Yeah, that was. Yeah, yeah. The whole seat. [00:19:23] Speaker A: Yeah. You can. You could decide whether you want to sit behind a passenger and sit behind the driver. Like, you could just sometimes, like, when you got siblings, you just told where to sit. [00:19:30] Speaker B: Yeah. You. You got in the car, you was. [00:19:33] Speaker A: Like, hmm, do I wanna open this door or that door? [00:19:37] Speaker B: That's funny. All right, number two, perfectionism. Only children may have high expectation for themselves, thus adding more stress or the idea of if it's not 100% correct, it's a failure. [00:19:52] Speaker A: Was this the only child that wrote this? [00:19:54] Speaker B: I don't know. And it's crazy, though, because some. I agree with some of these. Cause I know for me, that is one thing as an only child. Perfection was a thing for me. It was. [00:20:07] Speaker A: No. For you. But then I could point out some ones that had siblings, that perfectionism. It works for them. [00:20:13] Speaker B: Right. [00:20:14] Speaker A: Like. Like myself. Like, I still. I may be a. I may have siblings, but my OCD is ridiculous. [00:20:20] Speaker B: Right. [00:20:20] Speaker A: So my perfectionism in what I do, it has to be that way. But I don't think that goes. Stems strictly from. [00:20:27] Speaker B: No, no, no, no, no. And I will say this. This isn't a. This is solely. This was the majority of the times. This is what. [00:20:35] Speaker A: Because I've seen some only childs that. [00:20:39] Speaker B: Are cool with whatever. [00:20:40] Speaker A: Well, it's. It's. This person's been taking care of me forever and making all my decisions. [00:20:45] Speaker B: Right. [00:20:45] Speaker A: That I didn't have to. That they didn't have to be perfectionist. Yeah. At all. [00:20:48] Speaker B: No, this was a list of more times than not it would be a only child. But. Yeah. It doesn't mean you can't be a family of three. And. Yeah, you were. You had ocd. So. Yeah. Your sister coming in and changing your little dinosaur a little way was going to drive you crazy. Like. Yeah, you're a perfectionist. [00:21:04] Speaker A: You don't mess with Rex. [00:21:05] Speaker B: Yeah. You don't mess with TFC dinosaurs. Rex. This was one that I've seen a lot difficulty sharing. Only children may have troubles compromising in social situations. Like you were saying with food and sharing. And it said this can be objects, foods, personal things, rental things. If they owned or took care of it, it belongs to them and they get majority of time or rights to it. [00:21:35] Speaker A: Yes. Yes. [00:21:37] Speaker B: No, just. No explanation. Just. [00:21:39] Speaker A: It's just yes. Yeah, it's just. Yes, I agree with that. I agree with that. Like, especially like how we were talking about with food. Like, very territorial. [00:21:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:47] Speaker A: You don't have to share. And I feel like if you're made to share, you're. You're. You don't understand why or you feel like you feel like, I don't know, like. I'm not saying that you're not a sharing person. [00:21:59] Speaker B: Oh, no. I can tell you. [00:22:00] Speaker A: But. But if you have to share, I think you actually analyze what's going to be divvied up first. And then you're kind of like, I don't. You like you. It feels like you have this way to say that. No, I'm checking out of this. [00:22:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:13] Speaker A: But the rest of us got to stay in it. But for some reason. [00:22:16] Speaker B: Yeah, you can. We can exit as an only child. And that's where the perfectionist part comes in. Because I can tell you I had to learn. [00:22:23] Speaker A: See, and that's the thing is that. But you have the choice to exit. Yes, See, I have the choice to exit. We still have the choice to exit. [00:22:30] Speaker B: Yeah. I'll never forget, I had four buddies that I love still growing up. Four buddies coming over. They were all with. They all had siblings. I didn't. And I remember my mom saying when they come over, the room better be how you found it. So obviously spic and span. So I'm looking at every toy and analyzing if I share that toy, that's a lot of mess to clean up and I might get left with that. So we're not going to have that toy as an option. If I share that toy, that's a single action toy. You can't tear it apart. It's easy to clean up. Like, I was territorial. [00:23:06] Speaker A: She was doing this before they came over. [00:23:08] Speaker B: Yes. [00:23:09] Speaker A: Because again, he was eliminating their options. [00:23:12] Speaker B: Yes. [00:23:12] Speaker A: Before they got to the house. [00:23:13] Speaker B: Because guess what happened that day? They left. I was left to clean up by myself as an only child. You only. There's only one of you to clean up. [00:23:24] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:24] Speaker B: And I. And I'm owning it. I should have just been like, yo, guys, have fun. Let's have at it. And then, hey, before you leave, hey, you helping me clean up. [00:23:31] Speaker A: See, that must have been it. Just. [00:23:33] Speaker B: That's the one thing about being an only child was when they left and this was back, and when we hit an episode, we talked about this. I was not vocal. I love to have people over and share, but I was not the person, as the friend to be like, you got to help me clean up. It was like, okay, bye. Or it would have been like, hey, can you help me clean up? Oh, Tweety, I gotta go. Okay, bye. [00:23:54] Speaker A: Right. If you would have had siblings 100 different. Because that's how. That's how we do with our siblings. [00:24:00] Speaker B: Right. [00:24:00] Speaker A: Once everybody leaves, my mom will look at the oldest, the oldest will look at the second oldest, and the second also look at the third oldest, and they'll go straight through. It's kind of like. It's like the military. Here's your general, here's your commanding officer, here's your commanding platoon sergeant. And then here's everybody else. [00:24:16] Speaker B: And you know what I did? I looked in the mirror. I was Sergeant Left Hand. [00:24:20] Speaker A: Yeah, I know, but you were setting this up before people even came in here, right? [00:24:26] Speaker B: I'm not saying it was right, but I totally. With sharing. Can I understand it? I don't do it now because it's just. [00:24:34] Speaker A: You don't share now. [00:24:35] Speaker B: I don't. I don't think that much about sharing. Like, when I have people over and, like, they want. They want, like, alcohol. I'm not sitting there going, like, I just bought that. I just bought that bottle today. So, like, I might not have that out there. [00:24:48] Speaker A: Not at all. Hold on. I think there's a little bit in you. [00:24:51] Speaker B: No. [00:24:51] Speaker A: Like, a little bit, like, there's no. I don't know. What if it's an expensive bottle? [00:24:56] Speaker B: Well, see, expensive bottle isn't out for the public. Oh. Oh, don't tell. [00:25:01] Speaker A: No, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. [00:25:04] Speaker B: Everybody does. [00:25:05] Speaker A: I should know. Not everybody. Not everybody. And. And I'm gonna tell you why. You walk into my house. Anything that I use, anything that I drink, anything that I eat, anything that I use in my house. 100 access for you. I'm being 100, yo. I mean, I'm being 100. If I have. [00:25:27] Speaker B: There is not, like, one. Not one thing. That is not even the fact that, like, you can't touch it. But it's just not out. [00:25:38] Speaker A: Because there was something that you had that I never had. There was something that you had that I never had growing up. And the word is ownership. As a kid growing up with siblings, I didn't own anything. Everything I had, I had to share with my sisters. Everything. [00:25:54] Speaker B: But there isn't one thing, as you grew up where you were like, I'm cool to share it, but I just don't want it out in the open. [00:26:02] Speaker A: No. Because I don't know what you might want or my boy or you might need or something like, I don't know. And if there's anything that I have that's gonna help you or. Or make you feel like you feel more comfortable in my house. That's just the way I was raised. So if you could. If you came to my house right now and you looked up in the top of the top cupboard where I got my little. I got some homemade whiskey up in the top. Nice bottle. Do I leave it out? No, but if you came to my house and you was like, hey, do you have anything like this? I'd be like, yes, and I would. [00:26:37] Speaker B: Okay. But we. It's. [00:26:39] Speaker A: It's up there. It's not, like, out on the counter. But if you. But it's. It's there where you can see it to. Where you can go, hey, what's that? And I'll go like this. It's this. And if you go, hey, let's crack that open. Let's crack it open. [00:26:51] Speaker B: Okay, I. I agree. I agree. I'm not mad. I think we're kind of on the same boat as I think we are, bro. No, because, see, you don't have it out. [00:27:03] Speaker A: I do. Mine's out. Everything's out. Nothing's hidden. Nothing's hit. You even been in my garage. All the tools I got all out, sitting right here. [00:27:12] Speaker B: They're all out. [00:27:13] Speaker A: If somebody walks up and goes, hey, let me use this. If I know the person, I'm like, yep, here you go. Take it. Yeah, that could be my best sawzall. That could be my best sander. That could be my best thing. I'm not. I'm not the kind of dude that's going to be like, give him the other screw gun. Because I don't want him to take the good screw gun. No, I want him to take the good screw gun. [00:27:31] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm the same when it comes to tools. I'm like that with whiskey. [00:27:36] Speaker A: But. But what I'm saying is, if I come to your House. I don't have the option. You done took the option away from me before I walked in the door. [00:27:42] Speaker B: I don't have the option. If. Here's the thing. [00:27:45] Speaker A: I feel like if I come to your house, I got to start opening drawers. [00:27:48] Speaker B: No, you don't. [00:27:49] Speaker A: Opening cabinets. [00:27:50] Speaker B: I would tell. Here's the thing. I would tell you where it said. That's. Here's the thing. It's just not for display of, like, if it's a Tuesday and you just stopping by and you're like, I just need something to drink. It's not in my regular every day. But if you came, why not? [00:28:04] Speaker A: But that. That's the question. Why not? Why? Why? It can't be just a regular Tuesday. Why not? [00:28:09] Speaker B: Because that's the. [00:28:10] Speaker A: Because what? [00:28:11] Speaker B: It's a type of alcohol that is strong, bro. [00:28:14] Speaker A: And what, it's not gonna be good on Tuesday? We gotta wait till Thursday? [00:28:18] Speaker B: No. [00:28:18] Speaker A: Okay. [00:28:19] Speaker B: But if you're in that situation. Here's what I'm trying to get at. I would do, like, you. Where. If you showed up, I would tell you where everything is at. Like, if you came, like, perfect example. I have a buddy named Rob. You would tell me, I have a buddy named Rob. When he first came over to my house. And I will get him to message me and say this. When he came to my house, and I hadn't known him fully yet, he came over, he saw the mini bar, and I knew he liked whiskey. I said, yeah. I was like, get whatever you want. I was like, whiskey's on that bar shelf. And I said, if you want anything higher or extra, it's above the refrigerator. [00:28:55] Speaker A: Okay. [00:28:56] Speaker B: In a cabinet you can't see. And he said, okay, I'll start here. The night goes on. And he's like, hey, what's in the top shelf? And I said, just open it and see. Like, I'm not trying to avoid it. It's just not out for display. Cause it's okay. [00:29:10] Speaker A: Now. What was this gentleman's name? [00:29:11] Speaker B: Rob. [00:29:12] Speaker A: Rob. [00:29:12] Speaker B: Yep. [00:29:13] Speaker A: So how long have you known Rob? [00:29:14] Speaker B: I've known him now for five years. [00:29:17] Speaker A: Five years. [00:29:18] Speaker B: When that happened, I had known him just under a year. [00:29:20] Speaker A: So Rob shows up. He's like, what's up, Twitter? You're like, what's up, man? Guys, go inside, sit there. Rob has Chris. You don't know Chris? Never met Chris. [00:29:31] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:32] Speaker A: How quick are you. Are you to let Chris know what's in that top shelf cabinet? [00:29:36] Speaker B: Same. Because he brought. Because if I. [00:29:39] Speaker A: You sure? You sure? So, because he came with somebody that well If a random stranger is not gonna knock on your door and just come into. [00:29:48] Speaker B: I will say, though that is a difference between you and I. I will say. Cause you would. If you probably. If somebody broke down in front of your house and was like, this just isn't my day, dog. Like, car broke down, wife broke up with me. [00:30:01] Speaker A: Yep. [00:30:01] Speaker B: They probably gonna fire me, help you. [00:30:03] Speaker A: Put your car together and give you. [00:30:04] Speaker B: Dinner and, like, give you whiskey. [00:30:06] Speaker A: If that's what he wanted. [00:30:07] Speaker B: Right. And for me, I'm not gonna lie, if he's like, can I have some whiskey? I won't go to the top shelf. I'll just. I'll just go to the regular bar and say, this is also still good. [00:30:16] Speaker A: I think that's what I'm trying to understand is where is this balance? Where is this line that you draw? I just. I'm just saying, where is this line that you draw that you say yes, right? And no. [00:30:28] Speaker B: And I guess at 32. Oh, God. [00:30:31] Speaker A: And if you. [00:30:31] Speaker B: And going on 33. I can't answer that. [00:30:34] Speaker A: And if you have that line, then I'm asking, where did that line come from? Is it because you was an only child? [00:30:41] Speaker B: Oh, 100. [00:30:42] Speaker A: So that's. That's where that brought it into 100. [00:30:44] Speaker B: It's. It. It has to be. [00:30:46] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:30:47] Speaker B: Because everything else, like you said, and it's with certain things, like a tool. That's what I paid for it for. Like, the way I look at it, that's. That's guy math. If I spend 150 bucks on that tool, I used it once. But if you're my neighbor and you needed three weeks in a row, I will give it to you because you're. You're helping me with the money that I spent on that tool with people that you know. No. [00:31:07] Speaker A: If my stranger ain't gonna walk on up to your door, ask you for a sauce on me. No. I'll bring this back. [00:31:12] Speaker B: But if my neighbor did. First of all, if my neighbor did, I'm in trouble because every one of my neighbors got more tools than I do. [00:31:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:31:18] Speaker B: But if it was the. Like, the first time I moved in and I said hi, and they were like, welcome, neighbor. And they came over, was like, hey, my. [00:31:25] Speaker A: That's fair. Okay. That's fair. [00:31:27] Speaker B: They were like, yeah. My. What's the. My. My sprinkler head tongs broke on me. Do you got a pair? Yeah. Here you go. And a simple. Yeah. When you get done, I'll get it from you later. Just leave it on the porch. [00:31:38] Speaker A: Okay. [00:31:39] Speaker B: I would do that. Yeah, I guess it's. I don't know. It's. You got me questioning, but yeah, whiskey. Maybe it's just with whiskey, like whiskey in my underwear. I don't care who you like. You got to be really desperate. I can't. I don't know if I can share my underwear. [00:31:52] Speaker A: No, I can't share my underwear. [00:31:54] Speaker B: You got to, like, you would have to come to me and really be in need. [00:31:58] Speaker A: It wouldn't happen. [00:31:59] Speaker B: I know it wouldn't, but that's happening. [00:32:01] Speaker A: But I mean, like, I hear what you're saying. I hear what you're saying. [00:32:03] Speaker B: Had to be in some deep. [00:32:05] Speaker A: Yeah, deep, deep, deep. [00:32:09] Speaker B: I be like, bro, what? Like, what happened where you didn't have no draws? [00:32:12] Speaker A: What. What else. What else is on that? [00:32:14] Speaker B: Oh, man, we got on. Okay. Difficulty sharing, self centeredness. Only children may be seen as spoiled or self absorbed because they get undivided attention from parents or relatives and have to be the center of attention, seeking all glory slash attention. [00:32:32] Speaker A: I think that's just basic, though. You know what I mean? Like, that's, that's of course. You know what I'm saying? Like, I always want to say of course, you know, because, like, when a parent, if most parents if they only have one child, it's usually because they could only have one child. Usually. I'm not saying that that doesn't happen. Sometimes there are. There are difficulties and things that happen in, in relationships where they can't have any more children. Yeah, they have one child. And so that child, of course, is going to get the undivided attention. [00:33:00] Speaker B: And see, as an only child, I can't. [00:33:02] Speaker A: Yes. [00:33:03] Speaker B: I can't let you know. [00:33:04] Speaker A: See, that's not a question for you to answer, though. That's a question for your mom to answer. [00:33:08] Speaker B: And rest her soul, she would tell you. She did not. I was not the center of attention. [00:33:13] Speaker A: You were the center of her attention. [00:33:15] Speaker B: Yeah, because she's a parent. [00:33:17] Speaker A: But that. No, no, no, no. But see, that's what I'm saying, though. You were, you were the center of her attention. That was her attention. See, people who have siblings, we don't become centers at all with none of our parents. [00:33:29] Speaker B: You're, you're. You're a shareable center for your parent. In equal, perfect, perfect example, there would be no difference if three of you, single of me, both our parents, which I would bet on it, raised us just about the same way. [00:33:46] Speaker A: Correct. [00:33:47] Speaker B: If you was in some shit, without hesitation, your parent would come get you, beat your ass afterwards, but would probably Come get you. [00:33:55] Speaker A: Well, of course that's. That's just how. [00:33:57] Speaker B: That's not. That's not in a course, though. That's. [00:33:59] Speaker A: No, no, no, no, no, no. Because what you're. What. What. What I'm saying is, is that is. Is. It's like for my. From my situation, my mom, she was the youngest in her family. [00:34:09] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:10] Speaker A: My dad was the oldest in his family. They favored those two. [00:34:18] Speaker B: See? Favoring. But being still being favoring means that they be those. [00:34:22] Speaker A: The ones who are favored are the ones who are closer to the center of attention of that parent. [00:34:28] Speaker B: Yeah, but I don't think. But I don't think that means you're. You're still. You're still a part of the center. [00:34:33] Speaker A: No, no. You are part of all the siblings. You are a part of the network. Yes, you are a part of the network. But there are still some. When you. When you go in towards favoritism, there are still someone's like. Like, okay, my youngest went like, we would all get disciplined the same, but yeah, the youngest would be spared most of it. Some of it. Not all of it, but some of it. Because my mom was the youngest, so my mom was protective of the youngest. [00:35:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:35:06] Speaker A: But if it was time for me to get whooped on, she was like, go, go get it. He's strong enough, but don't touch my baby girl. [00:35:14] Speaker B: But see, I think that's two different conversations. [00:35:15] Speaker A: I'm not in her center of attention at that moment. No. And I'm. [00:35:20] Speaker B: Yeah, but I know. I think. I think. See, I define center retention and favoritism, two different things. [00:35:25] Speaker A: Well, that's what. That's what defines it. You. You can't have. Be center retention without favorism. You can be. [00:35:32] Speaker B: I think when it comes 100, you. [00:35:34] Speaker A: Can'T be unless you're an only. Only an only child because you have nothing else to compare to. So you don't have nobody else to compete for mama's love. [00:35:44] Speaker B: I mean, mom's love was. I was the center. [00:35:46] Speaker A: Attention. But deeper for you than anybody else on the planet. [00:35:50] Speaker B: Yeah. And I also was the center of attention for that ass whooping. [00:35:54] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:35:54] Speaker B: With no favoritism. [00:35:55] Speaker A: No, no. [00:35:57] Speaker B: But sometimes. So in a sense. [00:35:59] Speaker A: No. But you ain't getting whoop for somebody else's mishap. [00:36:01] Speaker B: Yes, I was. [00:36:03] Speaker A: I mean, I mean, like, as far. [00:36:04] Speaker B: As, like, if a friend came over and like. [00:36:07] Speaker A: No, no, no. Not even like a friend. Like, if something my sister did right, I get whooped on for that. [00:36:13] Speaker B: That's. No, that's no different. If I had a friend over. And they misbehave because you can choose. [00:36:18] Speaker A: Whether or not to have the friend over. You can choose whether or not you're gonna go someplace else where you have to be responsible. [00:36:24] Speaker B: But just like your sibling, I can't fully control what goes out of that person's mouth. [00:36:29] Speaker A: I don't leave that area. Is what I'm saying to you is that you have the option to leave that area, to not have that responsibility. You can go home and be like, I'm not dealing with my cousins over at their house because they're going to do some dumb shit and I don't want to be around when they do some dumb shit. [00:36:42] Speaker B: I wasn't. I wasn't always in control of that. I still had to go. [00:36:46] Speaker A: What I'm saying is that was never a choice for me ever. Right. [00:36:50] Speaker B: Never. [00:36:51] Speaker A: Whether I was in my own house, minding my own business, not being a part of anything. In my own house, not being a part of nothing. [00:36:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:36:59] Speaker A: I couldn't go anywhere where I wasn't held responsible for somebody else. [00:37:03] Speaker B: And I was. I was the same way. And I agree with you. Yes, cousins left the house. [00:37:09] Speaker A: But at that point, there it was. Right. Gone. [00:37:12] Speaker B: But in that situation, though, again, which is why I think I'm the awkward only child, is because my cousins was over almost every other freaking week. And I couldn't tell. I can't tell my mom to tell my aunt that. Not let John come over. And I know John is going to tear up the room. [00:37:29] Speaker A: You've never said that just out the blue? [00:37:31] Speaker B: No. Because you know what my mom would tell me? Well, you need to have a talk with your cousin that he family. You need to talk to him. And if he messes up, this is your house and you are gonna reap the benefit. The decision. Yeah. The punishment. Okay, so that's where I'm getting at is I think I was an anomaly. Like, it wasn't like I had a cousin. I just had to see them. Fourth of July, Thanksgiving, Christmas. It could be the second of February. Oh, yeah. Such and so's coming over. Your uncle Rain is coming over with all his family and it's like. And they there all day. And I know my cousin Shantina is a hoarder, terrible cleanup person. And so, yeah, when she leaves. Why is this room like this? Well, Shantina did. What did you tell her to clean it? Well, I tried. Well, you didn't try hard enough or. Why is it that this got broken? Well, Shantina went up there and she went up There. Well, did you tell her? No. Yeah, well, you didn't try hard enough. So now I got her whooping. But guess what? Four weeks later or two weeks later, Shantina's back over. [00:38:33] Speaker A: That's what I'm saying though, is that the key words in your sentences is leave and come back. I don't have any of those options. [00:38:42] Speaker B: You don't. And I. [00:38:43] Speaker A: It's every single day, every single minute, every single hour, every single time. [00:38:48] Speaker B: Right. What I'm getting at, though, is just because that person left, it didn't mean like that trouble for me as an only kid. Like, I still got that punishment. Granted, I didn't get it every day. [00:39:01] Speaker A: When they got older, they started getting more respect. Acceptable. Right? [00:39:05] Speaker B: Shantina. My what? She always get worse. [00:39:08] Speaker A: Or did it get. Or did it get much less growing older? [00:39:12] Speaker B: It got a little worse just because I was starting to become vocal. And then mom wasn't going to have us yelling at each other. So I still kind of got in trouble. But I was getting in trouble because I was trying to put my foot down because I was tired of getting these ass whoopings. [00:39:26] Speaker A: That's just a part of life. [00:39:28] Speaker B: Exactly. Which I'm saying is I think I'm the. I am the anomaly with an only as being an only child. Did I have Shantina every day of the week? God, no. Probably wouldn't have made it. But she was around enough that I. I do get it. That I was like, if. If she was around everybody's day that. [00:39:46] Speaker A: You see, you had something I never had that I wish I had. And it was the option. [00:39:51] Speaker B: Right. I'm not disagreeing with you never had the option. I'm just saying, though, I. I got the punishment part. [00:39:58] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:39:59] Speaker B: It wasn't like Shantina left and then because I was my mom's only child, it was okay. I know Shantina did that. I'm not gonna punish. It was a no. She left. You're lucky your grandma was there and told me to give you a break. I was gonna put my foot in your ass while everybody was here, but now that grandma left, you still gonna get that foot in your ass. [00:40:18] Speaker A: Yeah. Now what's funny is that my kids nowadays is that I still. I still put that in them. Like, I like the fact that when I. When one of my kids is feeding, is eating that they will look at their siblings and be like, here, here. And they will actually, like, half plate gone. Half plate gone? Yeah, actually half plate gone. They won't be like, here, here's a fork. Try this. Tell me if you like that. And while I finish this whole plate over here. Was it good? Yeah, I let them know it was good. [00:40:44] Speaker B: You was really salty about that. [00:40:45] Speaker A: I wasn't salty. I just. I. Me as a, as a kid, like this, how we grew up, like. Yeah, I was used to somebody be like, hey, grab a plate, grab a bowl, grab a thing. Grab a thing. Yeah, I was never used. I was never used to that. [00:40:57] Speaker B: Right. And for me, I. [00:40:58] Speaker A: And it wasn't bad, like. [00:40:59] Speaker B: No, it's not bad. [00:41:00] Speaker A: No, no, it's not a bad thing. [00:41:01] Speaker B: No. I can just tell because it was also good. [00:41:03] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:41:04] Speaker B: So I can see why you were sour. Cuz it was good. But for me, I've had people that ate stuff and then they were like, yeah, I just ate. And it's like, why, why didn't you just say you didn't want no more? I would have gave it. I would have shoved it back on my plate. [00:41:16] Speaker A: Just imagine if I was to make the bombest cake in the world and I was taking toothpick and just stick out a little piece and be like, here, Twitty. And then walk past you with the other. As I'm eating the whole cake. And then I ask you how that piece was in that toothpick and you was like, man, that was good. That was really good. Because when. What was it? It was. Yo. It was. It was. Was it the muffins? Was it the pumpkin? I think it was the pumpkin. [00:41:41] Speaker B: The first that. [00:41:42] Speaker A: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. [00:41:43] Speaker B: I gave you an actual piece of a meal. [00:41:45] Speaker A: Yeah, it was the. The chicken with the. [00:41:48] Speaker B: Yup, yup. [00:41:49] Speaker A: And you had it. You had it. And when it hit it, it was. [00:41:52] Speaker B: Like, I gave you. I did. I gave you one of every little thing I gave my taste buds. Pasta. [00:41:58] Speaker A: Bing. [00:41:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:41:59] Speaker A: And I'm like, that's all I get. [00:42:01] Speaker B: I will, I will take responsibility. [00:42:05] Speaker A: But it's like I say, it's not a right or wrong, it's just a thing that. That you would do as an only child. Reflex. And me, I would. That I would do as. [00:42:12] Speaker B: As a. [00:42:12] Speaker A: As. [00:42:13] Speaker B: Yeah. I should have just trusted more that I was like, he's gonna like this. If he doesn't like this. He don't got taste buds because that's where I came from. It was like, in case he doesn't like it, I at least just gave him a little bit. [00:42:24] Speaker A: It just feels like you flashed me a million dollars and you threw me a nickel. You know what I mean? And you was like, hey, man, how Was that nickel? [00:42:33] Speaker B: That's when you put it in that context. [00:42:35] Speaker A: Yeah. Then it's like, well, that nickel was good. [00:42:38] Speaker B: Yeah, that's. [00:42:39] Speaker A: I can't get another nickel. [00:42:42] Speaker B: Said I can't get another. Can you come back with two toothpaste? [00:42:46] Speaker A: 25 cent. What's up? [00:42:48] Speaker B: Oh, man. Oh, well, that. I didn't even get to the whole sibling side. I feel like we're super long. I don't know, people might be like, keep going. But how about this next episode? We'll dive into sibling the first half. [00:43:01] Speaker A: Gotcha. [00:43:02] Speaker B: And then I teased you a little bit. You're gonna have. You got your list ready? [00:43:06] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:43:06] Speaker B: Okay. [00:43:07] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:43:08] Speaker B: We'll dive into sibling on the first half of the next episode. And then there's a list that TAC. [00:43:14] Speaker A: Thought, oh, man, I was sweating bullets. [00:43:16] Speaker B: He. This is what happens when you don't listen. He just said it. Single kids. We were good at listening. THC panicked a little bit. [00:43:25] Speaker A: I did. [00:43:26] Speaker B: But yeah, I couldn't do that on that list, bro. [00:43:30] Speaker A: That would. You would kill me, bro. You have no idea. I was sitting there going, what? I thought I only had three options, right? [00:43:36] Speaker B: I'm over here thinking I got a great topic. And he's like, that's hard. I'm like, wow, is that hard? But when I figured out what you thought, I said, yeah, so hit the, like, hit the subscribe. Siblings, I'm gonna get to you, your tendencies. You can agree or disagree. Also, get in the comments. If there's something you said that I thought was BS or I forgot to add this. If you're an only child and you want to go at it with me, let's have that conversation. [00:43:57] Speaker A: And thanks again, Stephanie, for the little shout out and the question for reaching out there. And everybody else, please, if you do comment, let us know where you are from. [00:44:04] Speaker B: Stephanie, from who knows where, at least the state. [00:44:06] Speaker A: Just give us something. Give us something out there. Just be like, hey, this is. This is Stephanie from Minnesota or Stephanie from Michigan or whatever. Just let us know where you're from so we can give you a shout out. [00:44:17] Speaker B: You can even just do the state initials if you want to see how smart we are. You can put just AZ or IA or VA or CA. O, R. Yeah, OR. Yeah. WA Washington. Just. Just let us know. So, Twitty THC siblings, we got you next episode. And then you're going to find out what our list is next episode.